Marte Deborah Dalelv (24) ble kastet i fengsel i Dubai etter å ha anmeldt en voldtekt. Privat / NRKNote: There’s a “good news” update to this entry; please see below.

This story is, understandably, big news in Norway. Even so, it’s not entirely surprising, given how vehemently the Islamic world despises women. A Norwegian woman who worked in Qatar, was raped during a business trip to Dubai … and as CNN reports, ended up being arrested and convicted of crimes there, because she dared report the rape (WebCite cached article):

Norwegian interior designer Marte Deborah Dalelv has spoken out after being handed a 16-month prison sentence in Dubai — after she went to police to report she had been raped by a colleague.

The 24-year-old was convicted and sentenced on charges of having unlawful sex, making a false statement and illegal consumption of alcohol.…

She said she had been out at a bar with her colleagues and friends, and asked a male colleague to walk her to her room when they returned at 3 a.m. to the hotel. She’d asked him to escort her because the hotel was large and confusing, and she didn’t want to be wandering on her own, knowing she’d been drinking, she said.

When they reached a room, she realized it wasn’t hers — but the man then pulled her inside despite her vocal objections, according to Dalelv.

“He dragged me by my purse in, so I thought, ‘OK, I just need to calm the situation down. I will finish my bottle of water, I will sit here and then I will excuse myself and say I feel fine,'” she said.

That was pretty much the last thing she said she remembers before the alleged sexual assault. “I woke up with my clothes off, sleeping on my belly, and he was raping me. I tried to get off, I tried to get him off, but he pushed me back down.”

After someone knocked — the hotel wake-up call — she managed to get dressed and make it downstairs to the hotel reception, Dalelv said. “I called the police. That is what you do. We are trained on that from when we are very young,” she said.

Some 10 or 12 male police officers arrived, but no female police officers were present, she said. Statements were taken from both Dalelv and the alleged rapist.

She was then taken to Bur Dubai police station, she said.

And that’s when the real nightmare began for Ms Dalelv. She ended up being convicted of drinking alcohol and of lying to police. The former charge is clearly bogus, because Dubai is known for having a lot of bars, yet their patrons are rarely, if ever, arrested. The latter charge is more debatable; it happened because — like a lot of folks in situations like hers, and at her employer’s suggestion — Ms Dalelv changed her story believing the whole thing would go away. But it didn’t. Even so, she was held for several days in prison before having changed her story … so that charge doesn’t explain why she was treated so terribly in the first place by the United Arab Emirates.

CNN’s video story is available right here:

I get that Muslims really don’t think very much of women, and they’ve codified their misogyny into law. That said, let’s not fool ourselves into thinking the occidental world is all that much better. Christianity has its own misognyistic streak, as I’ve blogged any number of times before. And Orthodox Jews aren’t friends of women, either. Tons of American Christians have truly hateful ideas about women and about rape, themselves, so as far as I’m concerned, they’re not ones to point the finger of self-righteousness at the UAE and condemn them for this.

The main lesson here is not that Islam is an “evil religion” (as, for instance, the Neocrusaders would claim). It is that thralldom to any fierce religionistic ideas that half of humanity somehow has less metaphysical value than the other half, is quite simply not acceptable, and it must end. I get that many Muslims … as well as lots of Christians, and lots of Jews, and more … won’t like that message. But too fucking bad for them. This isn’t something that can be opened for discussion. They need to grow up for once and get over their hangups, fercryinoutloud.

Update: Good news! Ms Dalalv has been pardoned and is free to leave the UAE (cached)! Of course, this is likely the result of international pressure that was applied by the government of Norway, not due to some spontaneous change of heart by UAE authorities.

Photo credit: NRK.

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